The Avoider
BELIEF: I don't trust myself to make the right decision
COST: Poor time management/overwhelmed
IMPACT: Mistrust others
The People Pleaser
BELIEF: I am not valuable
COST: Poor boundaries/maintain façade to be liked & accepted
IMPACT: Not trusted by others
The Rescuer
BELIEF: By rescuing others, they will love me
COST: Create dependent & co-dependent relationships
IMPACT: Others aren't given opportunity to grow, take responsibility or be accountable
The Manipulator
BELIEF: Others are more important than me
COST: Feel isolated, as if they don't belong
IMPACT: Others don't trust them
The Victim
BELIEF: The situation I'm in is always someone else's fault
COST: Isolation & lack of respect from others, never take responsibility for situation they created
IMPACT: Others will avoid them and not want to engage
The "Right Fighter"
BELIEF: I am right, I know better or what's best
COST: Alienation of others, push people away
IMPACT: Others don't want to engage, seen as argumentative